Matthew J. Bees
1979 - 2021
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David Russo posted a condolence
Sunday, December 17, 2023
Me and Matt lived homeless in downiess for about 2 years best friend I ever had I met him many years earlier at makos great guy great so never forgive myself
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Stetson Ferrigno posted a condolence
Saturday, July 1, 2023
Yesterday we got some terrible news. Denise came over to get Charlie for the weekend. She sat us down and let us know Matt, Charlies dad, passed away in his apartment Thursday. There wasn't any fowl play, we are awaiting the results but we are pretty sure his body just gave out. We haven't seen him in about 6 years and had no idea where he was all this time. Luckily he was keeping touch with his sister here and there and his counselor who found him had called her. He was so young, I had hoped he would get healthy again and reconcile with Charlotte at some point..... I've been up all night crying but with some great laughs in between remembering the good times you gave us, all of the love you showed us. You stayed up all night, many times on the phone just to make sure I made it to be by my dads side in WV, or to vent or cry all before we even met up. When he passed you helped me laugh through the tears, you built me back up again and even took a road trip out there to help me heal. You never wanted me to hurt, or struggle. As much as you drove me crazy sometimes, it was nice to be taken care of. You welcomed me into your family, you helped train Lucky, you taught Rob and me how to chainsaw all the trees, almost cutting your leg off smh, You played with Kasper no matter what crazy made up game he had in mind, and you always helped ruby with hw and made her laugh. Things were so good for a bit. Unfortunately, you had your own problems to deal with that I didn't exactly know about or understand and you had to get help but, SURPRISE! I'm prego! I didn't care, i was determined and somehow I would face this. But the day I found out we were having a girl, I also found out you were in the hospital and could have died. I waddled, angrily to your room how real she was! You were so happy, you agreed to go to rehab, to stay clean and sober. That meant more to me than you'll ever know. I wanted you to have the opportunity to have a happy life, have a family of your own, and you did, you took care of all of us. You, Kasper and Charlie...The 3 Amigos! It was so odd for me to let go and leave my babies at home to work ft but you kept the house clean, even cooked some times, lol. You really had it under control. i look back and i remember the day we met, never knowing what a huge part of my life you would be. You fought your demons so hard to be the Dad and partner I knew you could be! Once our Charlie bubbles <3 came along, I don't think any of us knew just how serious you would take your role as a daddy. i hope you knew all the good we saw in you and that you felt loved and appreciated for a time. After you left my house, you still kept such a close with her, I didn't think you would ever walk away for good. I know the addiction was just to much. You did what you had to do to keep her safe. I wish we could have repaired at least what was taken from Charlotte and we could have more time. But don't you worry, we talk about you all the time, replaying her walks with you, building fires, signing and dancing... I tell her all your crazy ways, how talented you were, how intelligent and eccentric and funny you were! She will always know how much you loved her and as she grows she will come to understand, I hope, that your struggles were not hers, or anyone's fault. I will be the best mom I can be Matt, and i will make sure she knows just love she is, always!.... Thank you for the time we had, for our beautiful, AMAZING daughter, I will always love you and miss you, till we meet again. RIP Matthew Bees
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stetson ferrigno uploaded photo(s)
Friday, June 30, 2023
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Date night at our first symphony!!
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stetson ferrigno uploaded photo(s)
Friday, June 30, 2023
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Me, charlie and Matt at Christmas dinner!
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charlotte ferrigno uploaded photo(s)
Friday, June 30, 2023
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The very first picture with my dad!
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charlotte ferrigno lit a candle
Thursday, June 29, 2023
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My dad was the funniest dad ever. He was very talented and so awesome! As i grow up i realize how me and my dad are so similar . I listen to the same music as him, wear similar clothes, etc. Every day someone will tell me "oh you look so much like your father" or "he used to do the same thing!" and its pretty cool to learn how alike we are. Even though my dad had some problems and had to leave while i was young, me and him still have a very strong connection. Even in those couple years he was with me, he showed me he could be a good dad and i still love him so much. I am so glad he is at peace and not in any pain anymore. I know how proud my dad probably is at all of the progress I've made with some things and i think of him every day. I have tons and tons of pictures of him on my wall, i have his watch and it beeps every hour. Doing these things makes me so happy. Whenever the watch goes off ill yell "Hi dad!" and i know he's here. I love you dad!
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Dan & Joan Short posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 10, 2021
Rest in peace, Our hearts go out to the family. You may leave us but your love for your family and friends will stay with us always. Dan and Joan Short & family.
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Al and Kaori Shaw lit a candle
Friday, September 24, 2021
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So sorry to hear of Matt's passing. Matt was a special individual and the world will be a lesser place without him. His sense of humor was witty and sharp. He was always willing to offer support whenever it was needed. Matt was a kind, caring person and Kaori and I are grateful that we knew him. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Love,
Al and Kaori Shaw
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Connie Ortona pledged to donate to Pathways to Housing PA
Thursday, September 23, 2021
So sorry for your loss. Time heals the wound but the memories will always be there.
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Dominick LaRocca posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
To Denise and Laura, we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Dominick and Rose.
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Tricia Flynn mueller posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
Matt was one of those people that had a fire in him, a fire that made you laugh, a fire where you thought WOW he is something. Lots of laughs were shared between us. Lots of deep thoughts, which I'm glad I got to have with him. He was so intelligent, funny and just cool to be around. I'll never forget those good days hanging out, even when he hid my shoes in a trashcan and I went home barefoot...yeah that is funny!!! And I'll always remember how he was a brother to me ..and he will be deeply missed . To laura I love u, to momma Denise I love you ...
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Tuesday, September 21, 2021
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